Try the following
//adds login/logout to menu
//filter to add login/logout to menu
add_filter( 'wp_nav_menu_items', 'my_nav_menu_login_link' );
function my_nav_menu_login_link($menu) {
//uncomment the next line if you only want login on bbpress pages
//if(is_bbpress()) {
if (is_user_logged_in()) {
//set the $url on the next line to the page you want users to go back to when they logout
$url = 'http://www.mysite.com/forums' ;
$url2=wp_logout_url($url) ;
$loginlink = '<li><a title="Logout" href="'.$url2.'">Logout</a></li>';
}
else {
$current_user = wp_get_current_user();
$user=$current_user->user_login ;
//set $page on the next line = the permalink for your login page
$page='login' ;
$loginlink = '<li><a href="/'.$page.'/">Login</a></li>';
}
//uncomment out the next lines if you only want login on bbpress pages
// }
// else {
// $loginlink="" ;
// }
$menu = $menu . $loginlink;
return $menu;
}