Robin, yes this is to add a Profile link in the Menu, but we are trying to edit the Profile link in the sidebar widget.
Currently a non admin user clicks on the Profile link in the widget and they get directed to the Admin profile page, /wp-admin/profile.php .
And we need to edit that link to go to the bb user profile page,
/forums/users/%user%/edit
Does anyone know what file that property is being set at?